Two anchor-vs-reality drifts found during /read-mem audit:
1. start_go_stack.sh never started validatord :3221, even though
it shipped 2026-05-02 (f9e7241) and STATE_OF_PLAY claims it as
part of the persistent stack. Cold-boot quietly omitted it,
leaving /v1/iterate unreachable on the persistent gateway.
Fix: factored chatd's conditional-start block into a start_shared
helper, called for both chatd :3220 and validatord :3221. Same
shared-with-smokes posture as chatd (no S3 / JSONL-only state,
no temp-toml override needed).
2. STATE_OF_PLAY header claimed 3 parity probes / 32 assertions.
Reality is 6 probes / 38 assertions since subject_audit landed
in 262a77a (2026-05-03). Header refreshed; cross-references
the three runtime-divergence classes documented at
lakehouse/STATE_OF_PLAY.md lines 36-39.
Parity reports regenerated as verification artifact (all 6 still
green: 8+12+2+4+1+6). Same pattern as c0a55b1.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>